24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
I think I described my family dynamic back in another question, but I am not sure.
Childhood:
- I guess my childhood family dynamic was pretty good up until my mother met her (still) boyfriend. I feel that he took a lot of our dynamic away. We were much more tight knit and closer with even my dad (even though there was a divorce). So as I was growing up, my brother and I are the ones who were closest.
Now:
- I am going to answer this for my family now, meaning:: me, my husband and our family. I would like to think our dynamic is pretty darn good. I try to tell him everything on my mind, no matter what. I feel like holding anything in, will just make things worse. I would like to think I will have this honesty with my daughter. I want her to learn she can tell me and her father anything. She can come to us with any problems and we will do our best not to get mad, and even if we do we will talk it out with her. I see how he has a pretty good relationship with his two daughters and I admire that. I was never taught to talk about my feelings from my mother very much. I was always too scared to.
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I agree that it is better to talk about things rather than holding them in. I can appreciate you wanting to have an open relationship with Emma later on. My parents were the type who would get mad.
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